08 March 2007
the you i've come to knowi was bored so i decided to flip to a page in "boy meets girl".
"In courtship our goals should be to grow and guard. We want to grow closer so we can know each other's character, but we also want to guard each other's hearts because the outcome of our relationship is still unknown. At the beginning of a courtship, a man and woman don't know if they should get married. They need to get to know each other, observe each other's character, and find out how they relate as a couple. This is what it means to grow closer."
"...the question of when to say "I love you." If you feel love for the other person,should you verbalise it? Again, we must be guided by what's best for the other person. In some cases saying "I love you" prematurely can be a very unloving thing to do. Unless those words are sincere and an expression of true commitment, they are meaningless and can cause great pain."
heh.
i totally agree. (:
i've got CG tomorrow in the evening and stocktaking for sunday's canteen.
hmm.
i've been having headache almost everyday these days.
duno what's wrong also. =\
maybe it's the superdupermegaultra hot weather.
i've decided to take leave next thursday and friday.
thursday to spend time with greg since it's our 1000TH DAY. (oms, can u believe it? i can't believe it. 1000 days sound so long. 10, 100, 1000. OMS. i can't believe it. it's like a dream. a lovely one.)
friday to sentosa with karmila, christie and nana. (hope we don't cancel it. it's been eons since we last met up.)
♥ mellie ; 4:29 PM